Ungazamaindebe eshushunomntwana wakho eselula kangangeenyanga ezi-4 ubudala, kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuba uqale ukutshintsha kwangethuba. Kucetyiswa ukuba iintsana zinikwe indebe xa zineminyaka emalunga ne-6 ubudala, eli lixesha apho ziqala ukutya ukutya okuqinileyo.

Ukutshintsha ukusuka kwibhotile ukuya kwikomityi. Oku kuya kunceda ukuthintela ukubola kwamazinyo kunye nezinye iingxaki zamazinyo. Ukukhethaiikomityi zabantwana ezilungileyoEyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba umntwana wakho ufanele iminyaka yakhe kunye nenqanaba lokukhula kwakhe.

 

Iinyanga ezi-4 ukuya kwezi-6 ubudala: Indebe yokutshintsha

Iintsana ezincinci zisafunda ukuqonda izakhono zazo zokulungelelanisa, ngoko ke izibambo ezilula ukubamba kunye neempumlo ezithambileyo zezona zinto zibalulekileyo ezifunwa ziintsana ezineenyanga ezi-4 ukuya kwezi-6 ubudala kwikomityi yengca. Ukusetyenziswa kweekomityi kule minyaka kuyinto yokuzikhethela. Kuqhelekile kunokusela ngokoqobo. Iintsana kufuneka zihlale zijongiwe xa zisebenzisa iikomityi okanye iibhotile.

 

Uneminyaka eyi-6 ukuya kweyi-12 ubudala

Njengoko umntwana wakho eqhubeka nokutshintshela kwiikomityi, ukhetho luya luhluka ngakumbi, kuquka:

Indebe yempumlo

Indebe engenamlomo

Ikomityi yestraw

Uhlobo lwesilwanyana osikhethayo luxhomekeke kuwe nakumntwana wakho.

Ekubeni indebe inokuba nzima kakhulu ukuba umntwana wakho ayibambe ngesandla esinye, indebe enesiphatho iluncedo kweli nqanaba. Nokuba indebe inomthamo omkhulu, musa ukuyizalisa ukuze umntwana akwazi ukuyiphatha.

 

Uneminyaka eli-12 ukuya kweli-18 ubudala

Abantwana abancinci sele bekwazi kakuhle ukusebenzisa izandla zabo, ngoko ke indebe egobileyo okanye efana neglasi yeyure inokunceda abantu abancinci ukuba bayibambe.

 

Ngaphezulu kweenyanga ezili-18

Abantwana abangaphantsi kweenyanga ezili-18 bakulungele ukutshintsha ukusuka kwikomityi enevalvu efuna ukumunca kakhulu, njengesenzo esisetyenziswa xa usela ebhotileni. Ungamnika umntwana wakho ikomityi eqhelekileyo, evulekileyo phezulu. Oku kuya kumnceda afunde izakhono zokusela. Xa umntwana wakho ebambe ikomityi evulekileyo, kungcono ukugcina ikomityi yengca ngonaphakade.

 

Ungayingenisa njani indebe eshushu?

Fundisa umntwana wakho ukusela ngengca engagqunywanga kuqala. Beka nje iingqayi ezimbalwa zamanzi kwikomityi ekuqaleni ukuze unciphise ukudideka. Emva koko mncede aphakamise indebe yokusela yomntwana ayibeke emlonyeni wakhe. Xa sele bekulungele kwaye bezimisele, bamba indebe nabo uze uyikhokelele kancinci emlonyeni wabo. Yiba nomonde.

 

Ngaba ikomityi yestraw okanye ye-sippy ingcono?

Ikomityi yengca inceda ekuqiniseni imilebe, izidlele kunye nolwimi, kwaye ikhuthaza indawo efanelekileyo yokuphumla kolwimi ukukhuthaza uphuhliso lwentetho kwixesha elizayo kunye neendlela ezichanekileyo zokuginya.

 

UMelikeyiikomityi zokusela abantwana, iindlela ezahlukeneyo kunye nemixube yokusebenza ikunceda ufumaneindebe yokuqala engcono kakhulu yomntwana