Iyo umwana afite amezi ane, amata y'ibere cyangwa amata y'ifu agizwe n'icyuma aracyari ibiryo by'ingenzi mu mirire y'umwana, aho intungamubiri zose zikenewe zishobora kuboneka. Ishuri Rikuru ry'Abana ry'Abanyamerika risaba abana gutangira kurya ibindi biribwa bitari amata y'ibere cyangwa amata y'ifu y'uruhinja bafite amezi agera kuri 6. Buri mwana aratandukanye. Niba ushobora gushyiraho umwana w'amezi 4konsa umwanagahunda, bizagufasha koroshya ubuzima mu gihe ushaka gutangira gahunda y'umwana w'amezi 5 cyangwa se gahunda y'umwana w'amezi 6 kugira ngo umwana agire ubuzima bwiza kandi yishimye!

Niba umwana wawe agaragaje ibimenyetso byo kwitegura, ushobora gutangira guha umwana ibiryo ku mezi 4 hanyuma ukamukoreragahunda yo kugaburira umwanaKuzana ibintu bikomeye. Niba umwana wawe atagaragaje ibi bimenyetso - ntugatangire. Tegereza kugeza igihe azaba yiteguye cyangwa amezi 6 y'ibikomeye.

 

Abana b'amezi atatu barya angahe?

Konsa icupa: Ubusanzwe amata y'ifu apima garama eshanu ku munsi, inshuro zigera kuri esheshatu kugeza ku munani. Konsa: Kuri iyi myaka, konsa akenshi biba buri masaha atatu cyangwa ane, ariko buri mwana wonsa ashobora kuba atandukanye gato. Ibikomeye ku mezi 3 ntibyemewe.

 

Igihe cyo kugaburira abana ibiryo

Ishuri Rikuru ry’Abana ry’Abanyamerika risaba abana gutangira kurya ibiryo bitari amashereka cyangwa amata y’uruhinja bafite amezi agera kuri 6. Buri mwana aratandukanye. Wamenya ute niba umwana wawe yiteguye guhabwa ibiryo bitari amashereka cyangwa amata y’uruhinja? Ushobora gushaka ibimenyetso byerekana ko umwana wawe yiteguye gukura:

Umwana wawe ashobora kwicara nta nkunga afite cyangwa nta n'imwe afite.
Umwana wawe afite ubushobozi bwo kugenzura umutwe neza.
Umwana wawe arafungura umunwa we maze akinamira imbere iyo atanga ibiryo

Abana benshi baba biteguye gutangira kurya ibiryo bikomeye hagati y'amezi 4 na 6 (abahanga basaba ko umwana ategereza amezi agera kuri 6 mu bihe byinshi), ariko iyo uhisemo niba igihe kigeze cyo kuvugurura uburyo butandukanye, iterambere ry'umwana wawe ni ryo ndyo y'ingenzi cyane.

 

Gahunda yo konsa umwana wo mu kanwa 6

At Amezi 6ku myaka, ababyeyi benshi basanga gahunda y'iminsi 5 yo kugaburira no kuruhuka iminsi 2-3 ari yo ikwiriye kuri iki kigero cy'imyaka. Umwana wawe ashobora kubyuka inshuro 1 cyangwa 2 nijoro kugira ngo yohereze umwana nijoro.

 

Inama ku bana bafite amezi 6 batanga ifunguro rikomeye kandi bonsa

Gerageza gukomeza gutanga ibihe byiza byo kugaburira umwana mu gihe cyo konsa no kumuha ibiryo bikomeye.

Tangira wonsa umwana cyangwa ukamugaburira amata, hanyuma utange ibiryo bikomeye bike.

Wibuke gufata umwanya wawe kandi ntugahatire umwana wawe kurya ibintu bikomeye.

Bareke barye uko bashaka.

Tanga ibiryo bishya kimwe kimwe kugira ngo byoroshye kumenya ubwivumbure bw'ibiryo umwana wawe ashobora kuba afite.

Ntugashyiremo isukari cyangwa umunyu, bishobora guteza ibibazo by'ubuzima mu gihe kizaza.

Ibiribwa umunani bikunze gutera ubwivumbure ni amata, amagi, amafi, ibinyamisogwe, imbuto z'ubunyobwa, ubunyobwa, ingano na soya. Ubusanzwe, ntugomba gutinda kugeza ku mwana wawe ibi biribwa, ariko niba mu muryango wawe mufite amateka yo kugira ubwivumbure mu biribwa, nyamuneka muganire na muganga w'umwana wawe cyangwa umuforomo ku cyo yakorera umwana wawe.

 

Icyo ugomba kugaburira umwana mbere ya byose

Mu ntangiriro, umwana wawe ashobora kurya ibiryo byaseye, byaseye cyangwa byayunguruwe kandi bifite imiterere yoroshye cyane. Umwana wawe ashobora gukenera igihe cyo kumenyera imiterere mishya y'ibiryo. Umwana wawe ashobora gukorora, kugira isesemi, cyangwa gucira. Uko umwana agenda akura mu bumenyi bwo kuvuga, ibiryo binini kandi binini bitangira gushyirwamo.

Hari ibiryo bishobora guteza akaga ko kubyimba, bityo rero ni ngombwa cyane kugaburira umwana wawe ibiryo bikwiranye n'imikurire ye. Kugira ngo wirinde kubyimba, tegura ibiryo bishobora gushonga mu macandwe kandi bidasaba guhekenya. Gaburira umwana wawe ibiryo bike kandi umushishikarize kurya buhoro buhoro. Buri gihe reba umwana wawe mu gihe arimo kurya.

 

Incamake ya nyuma

Abana bose baratandukanye, bityo gahunda yo kugaburira buri mwana na yo iratandukanye. Niba hari ikintu kidakora, ntugatinye kumenyera ibyo umwana agukorera. Ikintu cy'ingenzi ni ugukura neza kandi mu buryo bwiza bw'umwana!