Masewero oyerekezera - omwe amadziwikanso kuti sewero longoyerekeza kapena lodzipangitsa kukhulupirira - ndizambiri kuposa zosangalatsa. Ndi imodzi mwa njira zamphamvu kwambiri zomwe ana amaphunzirira, kufufuza momwe akumvera, ndi kumvetsa dziko lowazungulira. Kaya amadzinamizira kuti ndi dokotala, akuphika m’khichini zoseweretsa, kapena akusamalira chidole, nthawi zoseŵerera zimenezi zimakulitsa luso lofunika kwambiri limene limakhalapo kwa moyo wawo wonse.

 

Kodi Sewero la Pretend N'chiyani?

Masewero achinyengo amayamba mozungulira18 miyezindipo amakhala wolongosoka pamene ana akukula. Kumaphatikizapo sewero, kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu mophiphiritsira, ndi kupanga zochitika zongoyerekezera. Kuyambira pa "kudyetsa" nyama ya chidole mpaka kupanga nthano zonse ndi abwenzi, masewero oyerekezera amathandiza ana kuti azitha kuganiza bwino, kulankhulana, ndi kumvetsetsa maganizo m'malo otetezeka.

 

Mmene Kuyerekezera Kumathandiza Ana Kukula

Kuseweretsa kumathandiza ana kuphunzira ndi kukula m'njira zotsatirazi:

 

Chitukuko Chachidziwitso Kudzera mu Masewero Ongoyerekeza

 

Kuyerekezera kumalimbitsakuthetsa mavuto, kukumbukira, ndi kulingalira mozama. Ana akamapanga zochitika zongoganizira, ayenera kukonzekera, kulinganiza, ndi kusintha - maluso omwe amathandizira kupambana m'tsogolomu.

Mwachitsanzo:

• Kumanga "malo odyera" okhala ndi mbale zoseweretsa za silikoni kumalimbikitsa kutsatizana koyenera ("Choyamba timaphika, kenako timatumikira").

• Kuwongolera "makasitomala" angapo kumapanga malingaliro osinthika.

Nthawi imeneyi imathandizira kusinthasintha kwachidziwitso ndikuthandiza ana kupanga kulumikizana pakati pa malingaliro - ndikofunikira kuti aphunzire mtsogolo.

 

Emotional Intelligence ndi Maluso a Anthu

 

Masewero ongoganizira amapereka mwayi kwa anafotokozani zakukhosi ndi kuchita chifundo. Ponamizira kuti ndi kholo, mphunzitsi, kapena dokotala, ana amaphunzira kuona zinthu m’njira zosiyanasiyana.

Mu sewero lamagulu, amakambirana za maudindo, amagawana malingaliro, ndikuwongolera mikangano - zomwe zimafunikira kwambiri pamoyo wamunthu. Makolo angachite zimenezi potenga nawo mbali m’zochitika zoyerekezera ndi kutengera mawu okhudza mtima (“The teddy akumva chisoni. Tingatani kuti tisangalatse?”)

 

Kukula kwa Chilankhulo ndi Kuyankhulana

 

Kuchita ngati kusewera kumakulitsa mawu. Ana akamalongosola dziko lawo longoyerekeza, amaphunzirakamangidwe ka ziganizo, nthano, ndi chilankhulo chofotokozera.

• Kulankhula mongoyerekezera kumalimbitsa chidaliro chapakamwa.

• Kuchita sewero la zochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku (“Tiyeni tikonze chakudya chamadzulo!”) kumalimbitsa chilankhulidwe chothandiza.

Makolo atha kulimbikitsa izi pogwiritsa ntchito malangizo osavuta komanso mafunso opanda mayankho monga “Kodi kenako nchiyani m’nkhani yanu?

 

Kukula Kwathupi ndi Zomverera

 

Masewero oyerekezera nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi luso loyendetsa galimoto - kusonkhezera mphika, kuunjika makapu oseweretsa a silikoni, kapena kuvala chidole. Zochita zazing'ono izi zimawonjezerakugwirizana ndi masondi kuzindikira zomverera.

Zapamwamba, zotetezeka ngatizidole za siliconekupangitsa kuti ntchitozi zikhale zopindulitsa kwambiri. Maonekedwe ofewa, osavuta kugwira amayitanitsa kukhudza ndi kufufuza kwinaku akuthandizira kusewera kotetezeka kwa makanda ndi makanda.

 

Sewerani M'mibadwo Yonse

Masewero oyerekezera amasanduka pamene ana akukula, ndipo gawo lililonse lachitukuko limabweretsa njira zatsopano zoti ana azitha kuchita ndi malingaliro awo. Nayi tsatanetsatane wa momwe masewero amadzimadzi amawonekera pazaka zosiyanasiyana:

 

Makanda (miyezi 6-12):

Pamsinkhu uwu, kuyerekezera kumakhala kosavuta ndipo nthawi zambiri kumaphatikizapo kutsanzira. Makanda amatha kutengera zomwe makolo awo kapena owasamalira amachita, monga kudyetsa chidole kapena kunamizira kulankhula pafoni. Gawo loyambirira la seweroli limathandizira kupangakulumikizanandi kumvetsetsa zochita za tsiku ndi tsiku.

 

Ana (zaka 1-2):

Ana akamakula n’kukhala ana, amayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu mophiphiritsa. Mwachitsanzo, mwana angagwiritse ntchito chipika ngati foni yoyerekezera kapena supuni ngati chiwongolero. Gawoli limalimbikitsakuganiza mophiphiritsandi kufufuza kwachilengedwe, pamene ana ayamba kugwirizanitsa zinthu za tsiku ndi tsiku ndi ntchito zambiri ndi zochitika.

 

Ana asukulu (zaka 3-4):

M’zaka za kusukulu ya pulayimale, ana amayamba kuchita zinthu mongoyerekezera ndi ana ena. Amayamba kupanga otchulidwa, nkhani, ndikuchita zinthu monga mphunzitsi, dokotala, kapena kholo. Sewero lodziyerekezera ili limalimbikitsaluso locheza ndi anthu, chifundo, ndi kuthekera kogwirizana ndi ena m'maiko ongoyerekeza.

 

Ana Okulirapo (zaka 5+):

Pofika m'badwo uno, masewero oyerekezera amakhala apamwamba kwambiri. Ana amapanga dziko lonse longoyerekeza, lokhala ndi tsatanetsatane, malamulo, ndi maudindo. Atha kuchita zinthu zongopeka kapena kutengera zochitika zenizeni. Gawoli limalimbikitsautsogoleri, mgwirizano,ndikulingalira kosamvekapamene ana amaphunzira kukambitsirana, kutsogolera, ndi kulingalira mozama m’masewera awo ongoganizira.

 

 

Momwe Makolo Angalimbikitsire Kuchita Ngati Kusewera Pakhomo Kwabwino

Nazi njira zothandiza zolimbikitsira masewera ongoganizira pamene mukugwirizana ndi zosowa za mwana wanu:

 

• Perekani zidole zopanda malire: Zida zosavuta (zoseweretsa, mabokosi, makapu, zovala) zimalimbikitsa ukadaulo kuposa zoseweretsa zamasewera.

• Tsatirani malangizo a mwana wanu: M'malo mongowongolera sewero nthawi zonse, lowetsani nawo zochitikazo, funsani kuti "Kodi tsatirani?" kapena “Ndinu yani tsopano?” kulikulitsa.

• Pangani mipata yodziyerekezera: Ngodya yokhala ndi kavalidwe, kakhazikitsidwe kakang'ono ka "sitolo", kapena "khitchini yosewera" imayitanitsa kusewera kosalekeza.

• Phatikizani nkhani & zochitika zenizeni: Gwiritsani ntchito zochitika monga kupita kwa dokotala, kuphika, kapena kugula zinthu ngati zoyambira poyerekezera.

• Lolani nthawi yosakhazikika: Ngakhale kuti ubwana wamakono ndi zochitika zokhazikika, ana amafunikira nthawi yopuma kuti azisewera okha.

 

Nthano Zodziwika ndi Zolakwika

• "Zikungosokoneza."M’malo mwake, maseŵero onamizira ali “ntchito ya ubwana”—maphunziro olemera amene amawonedwa kukhala osangalatsa.

• "Tikufuna zoseweretsa zenizeni."Ngakhale kuti zipangizo zina zimathandiza, ana amafunikira zipangizo zochepa, zosasinthasintha-osati kwenikweni zida zamtengo wapatali.

• "Zimangofunika kusukulu."Masewero oyerekezera amakhalabe ofunika kwambiri kupitirira zaka zoyambirira, zomwe zimathandizira chilankhulo, chikhalidwe, ndi ntchito zazikulu.

 

Malingaliro Omaliza

Masewero ongoyerekeza si chinthu chapamwamba—ndi injini yamphamvu yachitukuko. Pamene ana amadzilowetsa m'mayiko onyenga, amafufuza malingaliro, kuyesa malingaliro, kulemekeza chinenero, ndi kupanga luso la kulingalira. Kwa makolo ndi olera, kuchirikiza masewera oterowo kumatanthauza kupanga malo, kupereka zothandizira zosinthika, ndi kulowa m'dziko la mwana wawo popanda kuchitapo kanthu.

Tiyeni tipeze malo a zovala, makatoni, maphwando a tiyi, maulendo a dokotala wonyengezera—chifukwa m’nthaŵi zimenezo, kukula kwenikweni kumachitika.

At Melikey, timakonda zoseweretsa zapamwamba kwambiri zomwe zimathandiza kukulitsa luso komanso chitukuko. Monga wotsogolera wamkulu wazoseweretsa mwachizolowezi mwana, timapereka osiyanasiyanazoseweretsa zamasewera za siliconezomwe ndi zotetezeka, zolimba, komanso zokonzedwa kuti zilimbikitse kulingalira kwa mwana wanu. Kaya mukuyang'ana zida zosewerera, zoseweretsa zophunzitsira, kapena zida zophunzirira, Melikey ali pano kuti athandizire kukula kwa mwana wanu pogwiritsa ntchito mphamvu yamasewera.