Umdlalo ongazenzisiyo-okwaziwa njengomdlalo wentelekelelo okanye wokuzikholelwa-ungaphezulu kakhulu kunolonwabo olulula. Yeyona ndlela inamandla abantwana abafunda ngayo, baphonononge iimvakalelo, kwaye baqonde ihlabathi elibangqongileyo. Enoba bazenza ugqirha, bapheka ekhitshini lokudlala, okanye banyamekela unodoli, ezi zihlandlo zokudlala zakha ubuchule obubalulekileyo obuhlala ubomi babo bonke.

 

Yintoni Ukuzenzisa?

Ukwenza ngathi umdlalo uqhele ukuqala ngokujikelezaIinyanga ezili-18kwaye iba neenkcukacha ngakumbi njengoko abantwana bekhula. Kubandakanya ukudlala indima ethile, ukusebenzisa izinto ngokufuziselayo, kunye nokuyila iimeko zentelekelelo. Ukusuka “ekondleni” isilwanyana sokudlala ukuya ekudaleni amabali apheleleyo nabahlobo, ukuzenza ngathi ukudlala kunceda abantwana baziqhelanise nobugcisa, unxibelelwano, kunye nokuqondana ngokweemvakalelo kwindawo ekhuselekileyo.

 

Indlela Yokudlala Inceda Abantwana Baphuhlise

Ukudlala ukuzenza kunceda abantwana bafunde kwaye bakhule ngezi ndlela zilandelayo:

 

Uphuhliso lweNgcaciso ngokuDla okucingayo

 

Ukudlala ngathi kuyaqinisaukusombulula iingxaki, inkumbulo, kunye nokucinga nzulu. Xa abantwana beyila iimeko zentelekelelo, kufuneka bacwangcise, balungelelanise, kwaye balungelelanise - izakhono ezixhasa impumelelo kwizifundo zexesha elizayo.

Umzekelo:

• Ukwakha "indawo yokutyela" kunye neepleyiti zokudlala ze-silicone zikhuthaza ukulandelelana okunengqiqo ("Okokuqala sipheka, emva koko sikhonza").

• Ukulawula "abathengi" abaninzi kukhulisa ukucinga okuguquguqukayo.

La maxesha akhuthaza ukuguquguquka kwengqondo kwaye anceda abantwana ukuba benze unxibelelwano phakathi kwezimvo - kubalulekile ekufundeni kamva.

 

Ubukrelekrele boMvakalelo kunye neZakhono zoLuntu

 

Ukudlala ngentelekelelo kunika abantwana ithuba lokubavakalisa iimvakalelo kwaye uziqhelanise novelwano. Ngokuzenza umzali, umfundisi-ntsapho, okanye ugqirha, abantwana bafunda ukujonga iimeko ngeembono ezahlukeneyo.

Kumdlalo weqela, bathethathethana ngeendima, babelane ngezimvo, kwaye balawule iingxabano - eyona nto ibalulekileyo kwintlalo-ntle ngokweemvakalelo. Abazali banokukukhulisela oku ngokuthelela kwiziganeko zokuzenzisa kunye nokumisela isigama seemvakalelo (“U-teddy uziva elusizi. Singenza ntoni ukumvuyisa?”)

 

Ukukhula koLwimi noNxibelelwano

 

Ukwenza ngathi ukudlala ngokwemvelo kuyasandisa isigama. Njengokuba abantwana bechaza ihlabathi labo lentelekelelo, bayafundaUkwakhiwa kwezivakalisi, ukubaliswa kwamabali, kunye nolwimi oluvakalisayo.

• Ukuthetha ngokuzenzisa komeleza ukuzithemba ngomlomo.

• Ukulinganisa iinkqubo zemihla ngemihla (“Masilungise itafile ngesidlo sangokuhlwa!”) komeleza ulwimi olusebenzayo.

Abazali banokukukhuthaza oku ngokusebenzisa imiyalelo elula kunye nemibuzo evulelekileyo efana no “Yintoni elandelayo eyenzekayo kwibali lakho?

 

UPhuhliso loMzimba kunye neMva

 

Ukwenza ngathi ukudlala kudla ngokubandakanya izakhono ezifanelekileyo kunye nezibi - ukuvuselela imbiza, ukupakisha iikomityi zokudlala ze-silicone, okanye ukunxiba unodoli. Ezi ntshukumo zincinci ziphuculaulungelelaniso lwesandla nelisokunye nokuqonda koluvo.

Umgangatho ophezulu, izixhobo ezikhuselekileyo ezifanaiithoyi ze-siliconeyenza le misebenzi ibe yingenelo ngakumbi. Izinto ezithambileyo, ekulula ukuzibamba zimema ukubamba kunye nokuphonononga ngelixa uxhasa umdlalo okhuselekileyo weentsana kunye nabantwana abaselula.

 

Yenza ngathi Dlala Ukutyhubela iminyaka

Ukwenza ngathi umdlalo uguquka njengoko abantwana bekhula, kwaye inqanaba ngalinye lophuhliso lizisa iindlela ezintsha zokuba abantwana bazibandakanye nokucinga kwabo. Nalu ulwahlulo lwendlela umdlalo ongathi ujongeka ngayo kwiminyaka eyahlukeneyo:

 

Iintsana (iinyanga ezi-6-12):

Kule minyaka, ukudlala ngathi kulula kwaye kubandakanya ukuxelisa. Iintsana zisenokuxelisa izenzo ezizibona zisenziwa ngabazali okanye abantu ababakhathalelayo, njengokutyisa unodoli okanye ukuzenza ngathi bathetha efowunini. Eli nqanaba lokuqala lokudlala ngathi liyanceda ukwakhauqhagamshelwanokunye nokuqonda iinkqubo zemihla ngemihla.

 

Abantwana (iminyaka eyi-1-2):

Njengoko abantwana bekhula bebancinci, baqala ukusebenzisa izinto ngokufuziselayo. Umzekelo, umntwana unokusebenzisa ibhloko njengefowuni yokuzenzisa okanye icephe njengevili lokuqhuba. Eli nqanaba liyakhuthazaukucinga ngokomfuziselokunye nokuphonononga ngokuyilayo, njengoko abantwana abaselula beqala ukudibanisa izinto zemihla ngemihla kunye nokusetyenziswa okuninzi kunye neemeko.

 

Abantwana abasaqala isikolo (iminyaka emi-3-4):

Ngexesha leminyaka yokuya esikolweni, abantwana baqala ukwenza umdlalo onzima ngakumbi kunye nabanye abantwana. Baqala ukwenza abalinganiswa, amabali, kunye nokudlala indima efana nokuba ngutitshala, ugqirha, okanye umzali. Eli nqanaba lokudlala ngathi liyakhuthazaizakhono zentlalo, uvelwano, kunye nokukwazi ukusebenzisana nabanye kwihlabathi lentelekelelo ekwabelwana ngayo.

 

Abantwana abadala (5+ iminyaka):

Ngeli xesha, ukudlala ngathi kuya kuba mnandi ngakumbi. Abantwana badala ihlabathi elipheleleyo lentelekelelo, lizaliswe ngamayilo aneenkcukacha, imithetho kunye neendima. Basenokudlala iiadventures okanye baphindaphinde iimeko zelizwe lokwenyani. Eli nqanaba liyakhuthazaubunkokeli, intsebenziswano, kwayeukuqiqa okungabonakaliyonjengoko abantwana befunda ukuthetha-thethana, ukukhokela, kunye nokucinga nzulu kumdlalo wabo wentelekelelo.

 

 

Indlela Abazali Abanokuyikhuthaza Ngayo Umgangatho Wokudlala Ekhaya

Nazi izicwangciso ezisebenzayo zokukhuthaza umdlalo ocingayo ngelixa ulungelelaniswa neemfuno zophuhliso lomntwana wakho:

 

• Ukubonelela ngezinto zokudlala ezivulelekileyo: Iipropu ezilula (izikhafu, iibhokisi, iikomityi, isinxibo) zikhuthaza ubuchule bokuyila ngaphezu kwezinto zokudlala eziseqongeni eliphezulu.

• Landela ukhokelo lomntwana wakho: Endaweni yokuba ulawule umdlalo rhoqo, joyina imeko yabo, buza ukuba "Yintoni elandelayo?" okanye “Ungubani ngoku?” ukuyandisa.

• Yenza izithuba ezilungiselelweyo zokuzenzisa: Ikona ene-dress-up, i-setup "yevenkile" encinci, okanye indawo "yekhitshi yokudlala" imema umdlalo oqhubekayo.

• Bandakanya amabali kunye neemeko zobomi bokwenyani: Sebenzisa imisitho efana nondwendwelo lukagqirha, ukupheka, okanye ukuthenga njengeebhodi zokuqala zokudlala.

• Vumela ixesha elingamiselwanga: Nangona imisebenzi ecwangcisiweyo ilawula ubuntwana bale mihla, abantwana bafuna ixesha lokuphumla ukuze bakhokele umdlalo wabo.

 

Iintsomi eziqhelekileyo kunye neengcamango ezingezizo

• “Kukonakaliswa nje.”Ngokwahlukileyo koko, ukuzenza ngathi ‘kungumsebenzi wobuntwana’—ukufunda okutyebileyo okufihlwe kukuzonwabisa.

• "Sifuna iithoyi ezithile."Ngelixa ezinye iipropu zinceda, abantwana bafuna imathiriyeli encinci, eguquguqukayo-hayi igajethi ezibizayo.

• "Kubalulekile kuphela esikolweni."Umdlalo wokuzenza ngathi uhlala ubalulekile ngaphaya kweminyaka yokuqala, unegalelo kulwimi, intlalontle, kunye nemisebenzi yesigqeba.

 

Iingcamango Zokugqibela

Ukudlala ngentelekelelo asiyonto yobumnandi—yinjini yophuhliso enamandla. Xa abantwana bentywila kwihlabathi lokuzenzisa, baphonononga izimvo, baziqhelanisa neemvakalelo, bephucula ulwimi, kwaye bakhe izakhono zokuqonda. Kubazali nabanonopheli, ukuxhasa umdlalo onjalo kuthetha ukwenza indawo, ukunika izixhobo ezibhetyebhetye, nokungena kwihlabathi labantwana babo ngaphandle kokuthatha indawo.

Masivule indawo yesinxibo, iibhokisi zekhadibhodi, iipati zeti, ukutyelela ugqirha-kuba ngaloo maxesha, ukukhula kokwenene kwenzeka.

At Melikey, sisebenza ngokukhethekileyo kwiithoyi zokudlala ezikumgangatho ophezulu ezinceda ukukhulisa ubuchule kunye nophuhliso. Njengomboneleli ophambili weiithoyi zomntwana zesiko, sinikezela ngoluhlu olubanzii-silicone yenza ngathi idlala iithoyiezikhuselekileyo, ezihlala zihleli, neziyilelwe ukuvuselela intelekelelo yomntwana wakho. Nokuba ukhangela iiseti zokudlala eziqhelekileyo, iithoyi zemfundo, okanye izixhobo zokufunda ezisebenzisanayo, uMelikey ulapha ukuxhasa ukukhula komntwana wakho ngamandla okudlala.